Once you finish the wiring changes, I can remotely do the coding for you (for free).
Which swap thread are you using for reference?

 

I recommend that you watch 50's kid You Tube Videos, there is one specifically for wiring and coding.
i used the following threads for reference

DIY: Auto to 5-speed MT swap

This is the Ultimate resource for people who want to do the 5 speed conversion. Paired with the DIY by Ivegotissues666, you should be golden. This thread is going to be oriented more towards the process side of the swap rather than the DIY. I will include my own documentation and pictures of...

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Official Automatic to 6-speed Swap

First off, I would like thank Neil1138, ivegotissues666, and xmltok. Without their DIY’s and information from posts I probably wouldn’t have decided to do this. My intention with this DIY thread is not to dwell on what has already been covered but to share my experience, reinforce things I found...

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Progress thread: my auto to 6 speed transmission swap...

(NOTE: This is not a 'diy writeup' thread. See links below for DIY writeups, they are quite comprehensive. The purpose of this thread is to share my progress, ask questions and to encourage me to keep momentum). I finally decided to start the auto-to-6 speed swap. My car is 2001 330ci with 155K...

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Make sure to search the forum though there alot of threads

 

Did you ever get this figured out?

 

UPDATE: Figured it out and coded with PASOFT. Once I installed software and connected cable to car. Appx 3 clicks later car started right up