Update last night I did change to DEXRON VI. I did some research and I have a thread for the group. I got this from an Engineer friend that works at the Spartanburg Plant that Manufactures BMW.
https://www.newtis.info/tisv2/a/en/
I wanted to drain to see is this Castrol Transmax Multi-Vehicle fluid was bad. My analysis is I seen a discolor and red fluid when I drained. I had this Castrol fluid in for 6 days. This Castrol didn't fix downshifting issues. When I changed to Valvoline max life Dextron Vi this didn't change the hard downshifting.
My Engineering friend said you can put Dextron Vi in this GM transmission if you want to the get long life he recommended to use D2 transmission fluid
In this thread, I found BMW approved manufactures if you can't find email and I will send HTTP.
I also recommend buying a Bondhus 08-0421 00015 HEX-PRO Pivot Head Torx Wrench Set, Includes Sizes: T25, T27, T30, T40, T45 & T50 (6 Piece), Chrome. What a pain in the ass to get that T-45 Torx off without.
Hope this help those that a new to the BMW family.