Look up LK20 vs LK30 ps pump. One of the 2 is a higher pressure pump with a lighter steering feel. These were installed only for a brief time due to complaints. Most 2004s have the lower pressure pump, and it's possible your friend's car has the higher pressure pump (either originally or retrofitted).
Its hard to predict how long your pump will last, but if you want to extend its life change out the ATF in the system, with fresh Dex 3 or Dex 6, or equivalent.
Simple way is to empty the reservoir with a turkey baster and refill it with fresh ATF and rhen drive it. Repeat once a week or so until you see only fresh fluid in the reservoir. Better way would be to also change the reservoir itself, which has a filter inside. Good opportunity to change any other hoses that are leaking or weeping.