Whew!
You blew up something, but the thing that blew up probably isn't the only issue, though it might be...but at least now we don't have to worry about your car.
ET is most likely, but who knows...anything that popped off would make a pop...the system is under pressure.
So, if you're diy capable (sounds like you'd have a lot of studying to do)...have some basic tools, etc, and can read and follow many conflicting directions (important key!)...get car towed to your home. If not, towed to shop you trust.
If diy...then $300 buys you all the parts you'd most likely need and gives you a new cooling system (how many miles on car?).
If not diy, you'll spend $400 and maybe get a new thermostat...or for $400 maybe just new ET, or for $500...therm and maybe a new hose.
This is many fanatics first diy...it is doable...and since I don't have to see you crying...I recommend it, even if you don't think you're handy, I can already tell your savvy enough...as in you write well, so probably think well...plus or minus.
Depending on your city, you might try crying now and getting someone to help here (you're not in NJ are you? LOL).
If you need a shop, search regional forum.
...and if not, then start reading and learning and order a cooling overhaul kit, as I'm sure you'll need at least two of the parts of it.
Auto or manny? If auto, you need a special tool or to do more reading.
That's it for me for now, OP...HTH, and start the studying...and please, not worth the risk to drive, so hope you can either leave car where it is, or get it towed.
BTW, very common...the cooling system failing...so you're not a bad person...not the wrath of god or anything...I'm reasonably sure!
Doug