First of all, the "flap" on stock exhausts have nothing to do with backpressure. They are simply there for noise reduction. Anyone who says they have noticed torque loss from disabling this flap is simply talking out of their a<sp>s<sp>s<sp>.
The whole idea of putting on a high performance exhaust is to achieve large horsepower gains. The drawback to this setup is that you will lose some low-end torque. What you need is a high performance intake as well. Not only will you see the additional benefits of increased horsepower due to the free-er flowing exhaust, but the additional flow of air will result in more air having to be exited from the combustion chamber, thus increasing back pressure and gaining back some of your torque.
As for someone who said that you need a new fuel mapping; this is not necessary. The onboard computer will automatically adjust the fuel/air mixture accordingly, just as it does with BMW's own throttle adaptation program. Unless you install larger injectors or something like a supercharger, there is no real need to adjust the computer to benefit from the aftermarket intake/exhaust setup as the car does it on its own.
This bring me to another topic... those who put on aftermarket intakes without installing an aftermarket exhaust. Just like humans... cars breathe in, and breathe out. You can only "breathe" as well as you can do both. If you increase your ability to breathe in (aftermarket intake), but do not increase your ability to breathe out (aftermarket exhaust), you will only see minimal performance gains. Improving the entire "flow" of the system, i.e. intake through exhaust is the key to truly improving overall performance while maintaining a balance of low-end torque/high-end horsepower. :thumbup: