Talked to a mechanic at the local BMW dealership they put on this high heat grease adhesive. He said even oil would work. WD-40 is fine, but tighten the lugs good. Murray's Im sure has some stuff, he recommended some stuff in a "silver can".
In regards to rust around the lugs/wheel area-- said was normal.
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