I'm having a similar issue - just finished doing the full radiator swap, taking out and replacing the aluminum grille, the expansion tank, the lower and upper radiator hoses, the Thermostat for the transmission cooler, the O-Ring for the lower radiator hose's temperature sensor plug/thingie.
I got a TYC Genera replacement radiator (#2636) installed in my '01 325i (auto transmission) and after a few hours of hard wrenching, everything is in. So imagine my frustration then as I move under to finish up the job and tighten the plug and pour in some brand new German antifreeze, only to find that the OEM blue coolant tank drain plug doesn't fit! I'll include more pictures later but essentially the OEM blue plug is too "loose" inside the black plastic housing on the bottom of expansion tank that looks like a giant plastic castle nut. I'm not quite sure what I'm supposed to do - the radiator came with the peacock/radiator adjustment valve thing, but without the replacement blue drain plug. Anyone who has used the TYC radiator know what the diameter of their drain plug hole is? I purchased this off ebay in the meantime:
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Will give an update once the part has arrived and I can give a proper reading with the digital calipers. I'm hoping its as simple as me taking the new drain plug, pushing it in and I can screw it in perfectly flush. If not, any advice would be appreciated (including a suitable DIY alternative drain plug solution). :ben: