Yeah, this is the first car I've ever owned besides my MR2 that I am not at all worried about having more than 100k miles.You do what you want to do...But these engines are good to 400k miles if you keep oil and coolant in them.. I daily drive an '03 530i (E39) with 418k miles on its M54B30.
100k miles means very little to these engines...other than a good interval to change a bunch of things on an preventative basis...cooling system, CCV, gaskets, Etc.