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Old 07-15-2007, 01:10 PM   #1
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Going out with a girl just as friends...who pays?

So ive been hanging out with this girl for a while (4 or 5 dinners) and its strictly platonic. The most I get out of the deal is a hug. What surprises me is she doesnt even offer to pay for her part of the meal...I mean i would prob not take it anyway but she could at least offer?? Oh and shes always telling me about the guys shes dating and so on. I really wonder why she even hangs out with me? Im not the gay dude she can tell all her problems too
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Old 07-15-2007, 01:14 PM   #2
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Make her pay for half. When I go out with girls that are friends I pay a lot of times, but only if they offer.

and if shes talking about other boyfriends...

You are the gay friend
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Old 07-15-2007, 01:18 PM   #4
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Make her pay for half. When I go out with girls that are friends I pay a lot of times, but only if they offer.

and if shes talking about other boyfriends...

You are the gay friend


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Old 07-15-2007, 01:19 PM   #5
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she actually called and texted me alot for a couple months but i blew her off bc she was just too annoying for me. i dunno if that is her way or if she was interested. now we are just somewhat frriends. added some pics. i think the only time she looks decent is when shes covered up in alot of makeup. the guys in her pics are ex bfs. i give her a 6 or 7. let me know what you guys think.
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Old 07-15-2007, 01:20 PM   #6
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Free meal from a sucker, you don't help the freeloading by continuing to pay the bill. I'd mention to her that it's her turn to pay the bill...or give up that ass.
If you don't like confrontation you can go the passive-aggressive route and ask for separate checks the next time you dine.
I agree with the above, you're past the friend zone and into the gay friend zone.
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You split the check 50/50.

BTW, she looks like she's gonna hit the wall hard in about 5 years. If you're going to get in there, do it soon. Clock's ticking.
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Old 07-15-2007, 01:23 PM   #8
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i guess if u ask her to go out then pay for it, but if she asks you do 50/50
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Old 07-15-2007, 01:28 PM   #10
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Free meal from a sucker, you don't help the freeloading by continuing to pay the bill. I'd mention to her that it's her turn to pay the bill, or give up that ass.
If you don't like confrontation you can go the passive-agressive route and ask for separate checks the next time you dine.
Co-sign, I wouldn't ask for separate checks but I would be like so when are you taking me out? Or you could say "Isn't it your turn this time?" Or how about when the bill comes open it up, look at it, close it back up, push it towards her and say "handle it". Proceed to pop one of the mints in your mouth and kick your feet up on the table. Also, I would avoid the hug situation so she would be like what the FUK? Stories like this make me angry and it's your fault she's spoiled.
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wow! Learn when to cut the line! And no offense to you whatsoever, but I wouldn't buy that chick a tic tac let alone five dinners. Not my style.
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she better be a best friend from childhood or something(even so, that's pushing it)- otherwise, stop this b.s. now and tell her to either a) give it up, or, b) pay\split the bill
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wow! Learn when to cut the line! And no offense to you whatsoever, but I wouldn't buy that chick a tic tac let alone five dinners. Not my style.
ya ALOT Of my friends have been telling me shes not that attractive. shes 25too but looks older
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let me know what you guys think.
I think she wants you, and you totally put her in the friend-zone

Sucks for her.


BTW, I don't know what scale you're using, but she ain't barely qualifies as a 6.
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Man you better man up and split that sh!t next time what the hell is wrong with you? She's cute but if you aint tagging it she needs to foot half the bill and the next 3 meals.
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Man you better man up and split that sh!t next time what the hell is wrong with you? She's cute but if you aint tagging it she needs to foot half the bill and the next 3 meals.
i dont think there is a next time...i have been ignoring her texts for the past few days. im over it
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BTW, she looks like she's gonna hit the wall hard in about 5 years. If you're going to get in there, do it soon. Clock's ticking.
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Those dudes look like complete tools.... hit it and run, hit it and runnnnnnnnnn
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